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JUST RELEASED!
Episode 40 | BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms
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Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub’s mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and submissives.
Be sure to check out Shara’s t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex.
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-040-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-2.mp3
Homework | Do Something Kinky
Your homework for episode 40, should you choose to accept it, is to do something kinky that you’ve never done before, or that you’ve never done with your current playmate. We’re not encouraging any outright freakishness, but we’d like you to move out to the edge of your comfort zone and try some light D/s play to see if it works for you.
As always, we’d love to hear all about it in a comment on this thread.
Episode 38 | BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space
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The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it’s awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn’t have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive.
Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code “DARKAGE” at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-038-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-1.mp3
Episode 31 | Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships
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We’re joined once again by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration.
Yeah, it’s a super-sized episode.
We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger giving Shara a virtual spanking on the show. DING.
Show links:
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-031-Swinging-Part-2.mp3
Episode 28 | Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant
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Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with potential new playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink.
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Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon):
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The Loving Dominant
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-028-Listener-Mail-Vol-9.mp3
Episode 23 | Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side
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A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky side of a “nice girl.”
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-023-Listener-Mail-Vol-7.mp3
Episode 17 | BDSM Basics Part 1: What ‘BDSM’ Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM Porn
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A beginner’s guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym “BDSM”, Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak)
Show Links:
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-017-BDSM-Basics-Part-1.mp3
FrugalDomme.com, a great resource site on BDSM practices and safety
RACK vs SSC, great comparative blog post
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