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JUST RELEASED!
Episode 45 | BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies
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Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies.
Also, don’t forget to do the homework assignment for this episode 
Show Links:
Printable BDSM Checklist
Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above)
Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fields
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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-045-BDSM-Advice.mp3
Episode 44 | Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play
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Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn’t done anything wrong.
Show Links:
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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-044-Advice-Line-16-.mp3
Episode 42 | BDSM Guide: Feminism and Sexual Submission
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As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener’s questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.
We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.’s band from back in the day.
Show Links:
Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life
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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-042-BDSM-feminism-sexual-submission.mp3
Episode 40 | BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms
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Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub’s mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and submissives.
Be sure to check out Shara’s t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex.
Show Links:
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-040-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-2.mp3
Episode 38 | BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space
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The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it’s awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn’t have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive.
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-038-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-1.mp3
Episode 28 | Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant
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Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with potential new playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink.
Show Links:
Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon):
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The Loving Dominant
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-028-Listener-Mail-Vol-9.mp3
Episode 19 | BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On Kink
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A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes and the meaning of the word “fetish,” as well as a couple kink related listener mail items.
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-019-BDSM-Basics-Too.mp3
Episode 17 | BDSM Basics Part 1: What ‘BDSM’ Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM Porn
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A beginner’s guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym “BDSM”, Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak)
Show Links:
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-017-BDSM-Basics-Part-1.mp3
FrugalDomme.com, a great resource site on BDSM practices and safety
RACK vs SSC, great comparative blog post
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