Episode 45 | BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies

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Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies.

Also, don’t forget to do the homework assignment for this episode

Show Links:
Printable BDSM Checklist
Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above)
Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fields

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Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-045-BDSM-Advice.mp3

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Episode 44 | Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play

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Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn’t done anything wrong.

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Episode 40 | BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms

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Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub’s mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and submissives.

Be sure to check out Shara’s t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex.

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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-040-BDSM-Sexual-Dominance-Part-2.mp3

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Episode 35 | Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners

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Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, health benefits of menstrual sex and easy ways to deal with the mess, BDSM mentoring and helping a submissive you’re not sexually involved with find a dom, and some advice for a young woman who can’t figure out how to enjoy masturbation.

Show Links:

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon)

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Anal Sex (At Amazon)

The Expert Guide To Advanced Anal Sex (DVD) (At Tristan’s Site)

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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-035-Advice-Line-Vol-12.mp3

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