Homework | Sexy Checklists
As discussed in Episode 45, your homework this time around is to fill out a BDSM Checklist to show yourself where your kinky desires do or don’t lie. This can be a lot of fun if you do it along with a playmate then trade afterwards, but it’s just as helpful for giving yourself a bird’s eye view of your own sexuality. It might also give you a few ideas you haven’t had before
A lot of the checklists on the page linked below have a hundred or two items on them, so take your time and try to look at each activity long enough to give an honest answer about whether or not it appeals to you.
For extra credit, share some of your own experiences coming out as kinky to playmates.
Printable BDSM Checklist
Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above)
Homework | Tell Us A Holiday Sex Story
Your homework for episode 41, should you choose to accept it, is to tell us a your funniest/scariest/weirdest holiday sex story, either by email/facebook/etc. or by posting a comment in this thread. We’ll read the best of them on the show over the holidays so we can share a few laughs.
Homework | Do Something Kinky
Your homework for episode 40, should you choose to accept it, is to do something kinky that you’ve never done before, or that you’ve never done with your current playmate. We’re not encouraging any outright freakishness, but we’d like you to move out to the edge of your comfort zone and try some light D/s play to see if it works for you.
As always, we’d love to hear all about it in a comment on this thread.
Homework | Bitch About The Opposite Sex
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For this episode’s homework, should you choose to accept it, I’d like you to help me prep for some upcoming relationship-oriented episodes about the Battle of the Sexes, What Women Want and What Men Want.
The Complaint Dept. is officially open.
I want to hear you bitch about the opposite sex…the things that have consistently driven you crazy in one relationship after another, or things your lovers have done or wanted that you just plain don’t understand. No gripe is too small, and I’ll be covering answers and explanations to as much as possible in the upcoming episodes.
I’m betting that the more I hear from you guys on this, the more fun we all have
Post a comment here, or send me an email, or drop me a private message on Facebook or Fetlife.
Homework | 10 Habits of Highly Sexual People
For this assignment, should you choose to accept it, look over this excellent list of ten habits of highly sexual people. Pick one thing on this list that you want to be better about, and focus on it for a couple weeks. We’d love to know how it works out for you.
1. They think of sex frequently and surround themselves with stimuli that trigger desire. Dwelling on thoughts of sex arouses desire, which is communicated non-verbally and heightens their sex appeal.
2. They pursue – and usually attain – frequent sex. Sex is good for our health, both physically and psychologically, and the results show. It’s also self-reinforcing because the more sex we have, the more we want it.
3. They practice spontaneity, seeking sex whenever a good opportunity arises – and even when it doesn’t. This often involves some risk-taking, especially when it comes to sex outdoors or in semi-public places. The thrill of being caught in the act adds sexual tension and heightens sensation.
4. They are sexually adventurous and constantly seek new sexual paths, which keeps things fresh. Their openness to explore new techniques, new venues and new positions makes them an exciting partner.
5. They laugh frequently and use humor in the bedroom to dispel any tension or to defuse potentially embarrassing situations, which are inevitable with sex. People are drawn to laughter, and it bonds them as partners.
Homework | Out Of The Bedroom
Your homework for episode 22, should you choose to accept it, is to fuck your playmate somewhere other than a bedroom. Bonus points for trying somewhere neither of you has done it before. Play within your own comfort zone, but let us know where you decided to get nasty and how it worked out for you.
Homework | Kinky Porn Adventures
For BDSM Basics Part 1, your homework, should you choose to accept the challenge, is to check out some BDSM porn online and see if anything you watch lights your fire. I won’t ask you to do anything about it or talk to anybody about it yet, but this assignment is about privately pushing the envelope to explore your own desires a little.
Some places to find kinky movies without viruses and crap are below, although you will have to deal with some chat windows and popunders most places:
Tube Kitty Bondage Movies
TubeGals Slave Movies
Homework | Lewd Music
Your assignment for episode 16, if you choose to accept it, is to pick something out of your music collection that you’d like to lick, suck or fuck to and proceed to make it part of at least one session of naked time by matching the rhythm and tempo to your play. Listen to the same songs again a few days later, then post here to let us know how it worked out and whether that music is now lighting your fire.
Homework | Surprise Party At The Y
Guys, your homework this time around, should you have a stunt pussy to practice on, is to give your girl some random head. Out of the blue, just sit her down, spread her legs and have at it. For extra credit, keep your dick in your pants and let her stew for a while on the memory of a freebie head job…something women don’t tend to get a whole lot of.
Girls, your assignment, if you’re not doing it already, is to take some steps to cut back the bush. Leaving a creative patch of muff is just fine, but everything from the hood south needs to be smooth and clean. For extra credit, have someone else shave you.
Homework | Going Down and Cleaning Up
Girls, your homework for Episode 10, should you have a stunt cock available, is to give your man a surprise blowjob, expecting and allowing nothing to be done to you in return. Extra credit is available if you wake him up with surprise head.
Guys, your homework is to take some time to manage your pubes properly, as described in the episode.
If you dare, comment on this post when you’ve done your homework and let the rest of us know how it worked out.







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