A friend of ours from the Desire trip recently wrote a post on asymmetrical swinging over at Life on the Swingset. That post inspired Shara and I to unpack some of our experiences from Desire and during that process it became clear that the concepts of “full-swap” and “soft-swap” seem very foreign to us. For those not up on the swing lingo, full-swap means you’re open to all kinds of penetration with playmates. Soft-swap basically means (in a heteronormative context) no cock in the pussy or the ass, but other play (usually including blowjobs) is on the table.
Before I get too far into this, you should go read The Doctor’s article, as it’s what inspired this post. Go ahead, I’ll still be here when you get back.
Welcome back. I’ll start by saying that, while I’ve done a great deal of group play with with a wide range of playmates, most of it has been kink-centric. Considering the norms of group play in the BDSM community, that means I consider myself to have had deeply intimate and sexual encounters with people who have never seen my dick. Shara has a wide range of play experience; but before I started more thoroughly corrupting her, all that was one-on-one (sometimes with an audience).
I got chuckles from a few people when I used the phrase “vanilla orgy” in our Ruminations on Desire post, but I stand by it as the most apt description of the event. Lots of naked people (over a dozen), lots of enthusiastic sex in various combinations, but at the end of the day it was a whole bunch of the ol’ in/out shuffle except for the paddling I gave Shara. The vast selection of toys consisted almost exclusively of things designed to be shoved into a pussy or ass. Read more »
That’s right, Shara and I loved our trip to desire resort so much that we had them set aside a block of rooms so we can take you back with us!
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