About

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.

Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle.

As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a “take no prisoners” style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. You can call in to the show at 313-483-8563 and leave a message with any comments or questions you might have about anything relating to sexuality, email jvaltharas at gmail dot com, or post anywhere on this website.

Sexuality is one of the greatest adventures in human life. It’s time to step out from the shadow of a thousand years of sexual repression. It’s time to end the Sexual Dark Age of western civilization, and this project is my attempt to do my part.

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  1. Trance
    January 6, 2013 at 12:19 pm

    Hi, I just discovered your podcast and I LOVE it. I listened to your episode about BDSM and I had tons of questions. I’m a ok looking guy but I have Aspergers, so i don’t have very good social skills. I’m nice, funny, and most poeple say they can’t tell, but I have a lot of dark thoughts (BDSM).

    Is there any advice you can give on how to precent myself to a couple or individual that doesn’t make me sound like a shutin

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  2. Tim A
    September 24, 2012 at 9:32 pm

    Hi J.V.,

    I love listening to your podcasts and I am trying to catch up with the current podcast.

    Your sound quality is fine when you are monologuing, but your sound quality falls off on the second half of the show when you bring on Shara. Let me offer two solutions.

    1. get a second microphone for each of you.
    2. Get a Condenser microphone that offers a figure 8 design. It can receive sound from both sides of the microphone. This type of microphone is a bit more expensive and a lot more fragile of a device than dynamic style of microphone.

    Remember with dynamic style of mic’s you need to be 1-3″ from it, but a condenser style microphone will break if you are that close. Condenser mic’s are incredibly sensitive and cannot take a lot of abuse, but they are awesome for quality recordings (musical instruments). Voice can be recorded on them, but back off the distance or the diaphragms will break.

    I will bet that the reason for the drop in sound quality is that you both are further than 3″ from the dynamic-style mic. Dynamic mics are a lot more durable and can handle direct speaking. (Matter of fact: NEVER blow into a Condenser mic! You will break the fragile diaphragms.)

    I hope this helps!!

    Also, I would love to see a picture of you and Shara. I would love to put a picture with all the words I have been hearing.

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  3. GiaLady
    May 22, 2012 at 11:58 am

    Hi,
    After listening to a number of pod casts on swinging and various forms of open relationships, I began to wonder how many swingers over the age of 50 are still out there. I also checked on Fetlife to see how many older people still openly participate in kink with friends. I would hate to see people give up just because of age, but the world loves youth. I guess the answer is to stay as fit and healthy as you possibly can. It would be interesting to see some studies done on this whole lifestyle. Other than “Opening Up”, which I have not read yet, is there any information? Hey, this may be an interesting topic for your pod cast or for Swingset’s pod cast. Then again, maybe your audience is too young.

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  4. Silent J
    February 1, 2012 at 2:28 pm

    In one of your episodes you mentioned a questionnaire that you could give to a new sub. I can’t find it. I’d love to give it to mine.

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  5. Kinky
    August 24, 2011 at 7:36 pm

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  6. Tommy
    February 23, 2011 at 6:02 pm

    I’m interested in getting a T-shirt with your “Giving Head” pornoglyph. Will there be one in the future?

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  7. horse
    December 23, 2010 at 1:45 pm

    could you email me I have question about becoming a slave

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  8. Sassy
    November 24, 2010 at 9:48 pm

    Hey. Love your podcast. Oddly enough I listen to you podcasting while I’m working out… I have to admit I get a few weird stares when a devilish grin crosses my face at one of your jokes. I apologize if this comment is ill-placed but I’m honestly not sure where my comment “fits” on your site. I want to agree that mind-blowing sex is certainly possible between two consenting adults however I must present a caveat that most men (or at least I assume) don’t seem to realize. Amazing sex is only possible when the parts are all working. My lover and I discovered through a somewhat long and painful–for him–battle. Oh, circumcision. I had no idea that so many things could go wrong! J.V., if you think sex is in the dark ages then just mention “botched circumcision” to a circumcised (or not) man and you’ll have discovered a whole new taboo (I can see you wincing right now!!). All this to say, men, there are ways to deal with a circumcised penis that may hurt while practicing any form of stimulation. Seriously, my man bled while fucking me (I thought the bleeding was left up to me…) and we couldn’t figure out why until we realized that he had a skin bridge. Long story short: his dick was sliced as an infant, mom thought (b/c they are told to think) that since he is cut = less work for mom, skin healed but fused to the head of the penis. Messy picture. However, there is a procedure that can fix all this so I want guys out there to know that sex should be pleasurable and not painful so get that shit fixed and get on with the fucking!!

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  9. Heather
    November 14, 2010 at 7:57 pm

    Hey! Do you have a webpage that shows some of the Erotica that you write?

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