Episode 70 | Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink
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A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn’t cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of “pervertables” that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time!
They also have a first time buyer bonus that lets you choose from a few really slick toys for only 99 cents.
Click on the pics below to check out the stuff we ordered and talk about on the episode!
Our New Toys
Bamboo Beater
Horse Hair Flogger
Wartenburg Wheel (Sensory Pinwheel)
PVC Bondage Tape
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Episode 69 | Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of Catalyst Con
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Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter
Enter code “DARKAGE” at registration for 10 bucks off!
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Episode 68 | Cooper Beckett Discusses His New Book, “My Life On The Swingset”
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Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March.
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Episode 67 | Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms & Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge
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This is our first experimental run at a “Sex News” format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.
See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode.
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9th Circuit Court Rules LA Condom Mandate Doesn’t Violate First Amendment
Semen Is Good For Women’s Health & Helps Fight Depression
Going Off The Pill Could Affect Who You’re Attracted To, Study Finds
The Science Of Orgasms (Video from IFL Science)
Supreme Court Declines To Block Florida Same-Sex Marriages
Naked Revenge: Wife Leaves Naked Husband And Twin Sister In Parking Lot After Catching Them Cheating
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Asymmetry Of Desire In BDSM Play And Swinging
A friend of ours from the Desire trip recently wrote a post on asymmetrical swinging over at Life on the Swingset. That post inspired Shara and I to unpack some of our experiences from Desire and during that process it became clear that the concepts of “full-swap” and “soft-swap” seem very foreign to us. For those not up on the swing lingo, full-swap means you’re open to all kinds of penetration with playmates. Soft-swap basically means (in a heteronormative context) no cock in the pussy or the ass, but other play (usually including blowjobs) is on the table.
Before I get too far into this, you should go read The Doctor’s article, as it’s what inspired this post. Go ahead, I’ll still be here when you get back.
Welcome back. I’ll start by saying that, while I’ve done a great deal of group play with with a wide range of playmates, most of it has been kink-centric. Considering the norms of group play in the BDSM community, that means I consider myself to have had deeply intimate and sexual encounters with people who have never seen my dick. Shara has a wide range of play experience; but before I started more thoroughly corrupting her, all that was one-on-one (sometimes with an audience).
I got chuckles from a few people when I used the phrase “vanilla orgy” in our Ruminations on Desire post, but I stand by it as the most apt description of the event. Lots of naked people (over a dozen), lots of enthusiastic sex in various combinations, but at the end of the day it was a whole bunch of the ol’ in/out shuffle except for the paddling I gave Shara. The vast selection of toys consisted almost exclusively of things designed to be shoved into a pussy or ass. Read more »
Join Us! | Doing Desire with JV and Shara, Nov 7-14, 2015
That’s right, Shara and I loved our trip to desire resort so much that we had them set aside a block of rooms so we can take you back with us!
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